[Community Thread] Welcome To New York! - Intros Here Too

[Jalen Bluntson]

yep.

[thebuzzardman]

It's better that you learn now that the vast majority of human beings suck.

Have a nice day!

[camillepd]

You are hurt because you placed these expectations on someone you just met, which quite frankly you shouldn't have. Remember, there is always great quantity in the world but quality is hard to find.

[Lord Commander]

You tipped your feelings way too soon, bro. It’s been my experience that women respond better when you seem disinterested. It’s a bs game to play, but that’s how it is. Next time you’ll know.

[Jalen Bluntson]

Sex on the 2nd date then she moved on? She didn't like the sex.

[HarthorneWingo]

This is going to be a lame thread and probably reactionary so please don’t jump on me too much. I know I’ll sound like a loser.

I went on 2 dates with this girl and we had a great time. Second time was at her apartment and we had sex. We kept talking for days after and she wanted to see me again but today she dropped it on me that she doesn’t feel anything romantically and doesn’t want to hurt me. That’s fair - but is it weird that I feel hurt by being turned down after 2 dates? That’s not a long time. It’s like 2-3 weeks but I really liked this girl and feel like **** because apparently she didn’t have the same feelings back.

Am I a lame for having feelings for someone so quickly?

There are 50 ways to leave your lover. And all of them fcking hurt.

This should make you feel better.

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[Fat]

take a sh*t in front of her door and shape it into a broken heart

[Marty McFly]

yep.

you guys are **** brutal.

[MP4LIFE]

Sex on the 2nd date then she moved on? She didn't like the sex.

I know you’re the king of trolls but that’s not it at all.

We talked literally the morning after and she said she loved it and couldn’t wait to see me again and how I wasn’t there snuggling next to her. She was crazy dirty talk to me throughout the day and saying how turned on she was. Someone who doesn’t like the sex doesn’t go to that level. I’m not making anything up to make myself look good. I wouldn’t post about it here if I thought sex was the reason.

[Mecca]

Sex on the 2nd date then she moved on? She didn't like the sex.

I know you’re the king of trolls but that’s not it at all.

We talked literally the morning after and she said she loved it and couldn’t wait to see me again and how I wasn’t there snuggling next to her. She was crazy dirty talk to me throughout the day and saying how turned on she was. Someone who doesn’t like the sex doesn’t go to that level. I’m not making anything up to make myself look good. I wouldn’t post about it here if I thought sex was the reason.

Where did you meet her? context helps

[MP4LIFE]

I do prefer tough chicks who can be submissive at times. I don't like to be the leader, you're right. I want a girl who can kind of push me to do **** and just be very outgoing. I'm a little quiet and laid back so I want the opposite. This girl was that but she didn't up liking me.

For the guys with the sound advice - thanks and I appreciate it. It just sucks I can't really let my true feelings be known too soon. I also need to know how to step back and not be infatuated too quickly. i don't know how to control that urge. My natural instinct is to be no nice and loving and it hurts when that's rejected.

[Jalen Bluntson]

Sex on the 2nd date then she moved on? She didn't like the sex.

I know you’re the king of trolls but that’s not it at all.

We talked literally the morning after and she said she loved it and couldn’t wait to see me again and how I wasn’t there snuggling next to her. She was crazy dirty talk to me throughout the day and saying how turned on she was. Someone who doesn’t like the sex doesn’t go to that level. I’m not making anything up to make myself look good. I wouldn’t post about it here if I thought sex was the reason.

I don't troll anyone so EAD.

She told you the sex was good and dumped you? After talking dirty all day? She's got a man?

[MP4LIFE]

Sex on the 2nd date then she moved on? She didn't like the sex.

I know you’re the king of trolls but that’s not it at all.

We talked literally the morning after and she said she loved it and couldn’t wait to see me again and how I wasn’t there snuggling next to her. She was crazy dirty talk to me throughout the day and saying how turned on she was. Someone who doesn’t like the sex doesn’t go to that level. I’m not making anything up to make myself look good. I wouldn’t post about it here if I thought sex was the reason.

Where did you meet her? context helps

Bumble, which I think is a step above Tinder.

[whocares1]

I don't understand how it de-escalated from "2nd date sex" to "Don't view you romantically". Something has to have changed her mind.

[Mecca]

I know you’re the king of trolls but that’s not it at all.

We talked literally the morning after and she said she loved it and couldn’t wait to see me again and how I wasn’t there snuggling next to her. She was crazy dirty talk to me throughout the day and saying how turned on she was. Someone who doesn’t like the sex doesn’t go to that level. I’m not making anything up to make myself look good. I wouldn’t post about it here if I thought sex was the reason.

Where did you meet her? context helps

Bumble, which I think is a step above Tinder.

Welp, there you go. You met her on a dating app. You got your answer.

I use Bumble and Tinder. They're one in the same. The issue is what I said in my first post. Girls who have access or use dating apps are almost impossible to date because they know they have the entire menu on their plate so there's no need to settle for one.

I've dated approximately 15 different women from Tinder/Bumble this Winter alone and can tell you similar things have happened to me. She found a new guy to play with on Bumble or is having second thoughts as she doesn't know what she wants. I'm giving you that advice because it's happened to me so many times before via dating apps.

[Mecca]

I don't understand how it de-escalated from "2nd date sex" to "Don't view you romantically". Something has to have changed her mind.

Yeah, it's called meeting women off of dating apps. This is the norm tbh.

[NY2TheBay]

Where did you meet her? context helps

Bumble, which I think is a step above Tinder.

Welp, there you go. You met her on a dating app. You got your answer.

I use Bumble and Tinder. They're one in the same. The issue is what I said in my first post. Girls who have access or use dating apps are almost impossible to date because they know they have the entire menu on their plate so there's no need to settle for one.

I've dated approximately 15 different women from Tinder/Bumble this Winter alone and can tell you similar things have happened to me. She found a new guy to play with on Bumble or is having second thoughts as she doesn't know what she wants. I'm giving you that advice because it's happened to me so many times before via dating apps.

damn homie, get it.

[MP4LIFE]

I don't understand how it de-escalated from "2nd date sex" to "Don't view you romantically". Something has to have changed her mind.

I think I noticed it when she started to have some political talk with me via text. When I said I wasn’t a feminist in the ‘2018 definition’ and that I wouldnt be out in some SJW rallies (even though I’m liberal leaning, I really don’t care that much about politics in general) she started to say she couldn’t date someone who didn’t share her beliefs. She apologized later for ‘being mean’ but I think that could’ve been it. This was on Thursday. I started seeing her texting differently on Friday.

She also went out last night to some gala with her friends. Could’ve met someone new there.

Also we pretty much had sex the first date too so it wasn’t that.

[Garbagelo]

You played and lost the game. That's how it is with these dating apps. You need to keep the other party interested because it's just too easy to find someone new.

[NY2TheBay]

OP- This happens on Bumble and Tinder. Mecca kind of hit this thing on the head. They got a buffet to eat from and if they dont know what they want, they keep it swiping.