daoneandonly wrote:dckingsfan wrote:Great - and that is where we disagree. From my point of view the folks that don't support women raising children are right there in the middle of the brigade (actually worse because in my mind an infant is even less able to support himself than a fetus).
And there you have it... now you should be able to clearly understand why gtn's comment was so succinct. It just took a like time to get there.
So then where do you stand? You say part of the brigade is saying a woman who cant afford to raise a child should be able to have an abortion, so what about the women/men that can? Are you for them having that right?
Cause you are basically saying one of two things, either a poor person has more rights and freedoms than a rich when it comes to abortion, or you support abortion on all levels, across the board, no exceptions. So which is it?
1) Women take a significant risk having a baby (I have cited articles on this) and the less well-off you are the higher the risks.
2) Over-the-counter abortion pills and Canada/Mexico make it impossible to significantly reduce abortions legislatively without a "war on abortion" like we have a "war on drugs" and incarcerating lots of women. And there, women with means would go to prison far less often than those without.
3) There are significant costs (medically & work) to having a baby.
4) There are significant costs after having a baby(medically & work).
5) There are significant costs to raise a baby over time.
6) There is still a stigma to having a baby without a significant other or husband.
Therefore, I would first start with 6. I would run a campaign talking about the need for children in our country (true, look at the demographics). I would destigmatize out of marriage births. I would create program(s) that ensured that all mothers were protected starting with free prenatal care for all, free after care for all children and ensure that no mother could lose her job based upon having to care for her child.
And then you get to the harder part - education. We have so f'd up our educational system in the US as to make it unworkable. This is a state's issue vs. a federal issue at this time and the more that the federal government has become "involved" in education the worse it has become.
But there could be an unfunded mandate that all could get free education through college. Not hard to do if you tie all junior college systems into the K-12. And expand K-12 to pre-K as well. But there would have to be competition to make this work. And if you want to beat on the Ds - this would be the issue where they are way off base.
This would result in SIGNIFICANTLY less abortions. But I feel that those that are currently against abortion aren't working toward a solution but rather a rhetorically exploitive message for political purposes calculated to appeal to the fears and prejudices of most church goers (opinion with no fact).