daoneandonly wrote:And I truly want to understand all those who keep mentioning putting in place things to help people or prevent ppl from doing drugs or committing crimes? It sounds like you're arguing some incentive for people to just simply do the right thing and be a good person, which makes absolutely no sense.
No, it is doing the right thing. Don't force a woman to keep a baby that she can't afford. Help her. If not, then you are going to have more abortions. It's really that easy.
The thing is - you want to have a clean way to restrict abortions. Something easy. But there isn't one. Its complicated and hard.
Women don't have abortions because they are lazy and selfish. They have abortions because they are scared and rightfully so...
Death rates for women giving birth are climbing. Costs to have the baby are 8-14K now. Then you have daycare, diapers, food and healthcare. They look at the first year and they are underwater. The estimate to raise a kid is now a cool $250,000 on average.
And having a baby and then giving it away also scares them...
So, yep - I really want to see the abortion rates keep falling. So, yes - I am all for all of the above including providing those very good birth control methods so that the cheap ones don't get used.
I get where you are coming from - but this is why we will never have a crossing of the intersections on this topic. I totally against imprisoning women or disparaging them (list) for having an abortion. Ever.
And we see with the recent rulings where there was no carveout for abortions - that there is no middle ground.