zimpy27 wrote:MrDollarBills wrote:zimpy27 wrote:
He's been through 2 years of injury, he's missed his big payday, he's had anger issues, he's threatened violence, he's emotionally hit rock bottom and his a high-profile star in the league.
The big win from all of this is making him a rejuvenation project so he can become a role model to others with anger issues. If you ban him then he may go down a dark path and take his family with him. I'm not talking about money.
You can't just suspend him and bring him back without him dealing with his anger issues. It needs to be about helping him with the anger issues and letting him play as long as he sees people about it and enrols in programs.
If being out of basketball is going to lead him down a dark path it was well going to happen before this was made public.
I agree that he needs to seek counseling for his anger issues. But he has to be the one to make that step for him and his family's sake.
Guys who easily make threats like that are abusers. I really am finding a hard time being empathetic towards him. As I stated in another post, I've had people killed by men who behaved exactly like this and from my personal opinion this isn't a teachable moment, but an opportunity to show that the NBA takes violence against women very seriously and will hold players to account.
I don't think you have to be empathetic for him, my empathy is aligned with their child. Just thinking of the best solution for him.
True. Very true.