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GotItNow · Post #721 » by **GotItNow** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 3:11 am

Thanks everyone for your well wishes. The way I see it it's not necessarily the one who had the loss who has a need. (I do have some myself though.) Even though I appreciate every bit of your reaching out. I felt that. I posted because it's more a message to everyone that whatever came before is washed away in the end. Like for example my brother said "I haven't talked to her in twenty years." So what, do you think at all that it matters? It doesn't. We all think it does, we all hate ourselves in various ways for the things we think we could have done better. It doesn't matter.

Hear, it doesn't matter. So stop beating yourselves/myself up. It doesn't matter.

My Father said he "made peace" with his little sister, he had grown distant from her. Do you think she cares? No, c'mon. She just wants to see her big brother happy as she passes. IMO as you pass on you gain perspective and you see that people do the best they can and it's not always what they wanted to do because we all have our failures but it's what they were capable of at the time. That's all you can ever do.

Knicksman780 · Post #722 » by **Knicksman780** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 3:16 am

I feel for you. In the last 6 months I lost my mother, grandmother and mother in law all due to cancer. This devastated my family. I was so glad to get 2010 over with, then last week a good friend of mine passes away unexpectedly...just 2 hours after I spent a half hour talking to him at my job (he came to visit and chat) about life in general. His last words to me were, "I'm happy where everything is at right now...Life's good".

Hang in there...and cherish the one's that are here.

BLACKFEET 2010 · Post #723 » by **BLACKFEET 2010** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 3:19 am

GotItNow wrote:Thanks everyone for your well wishes. The way I see it it's not necessarily the one who had the loss who has a need. (I do have some myself though.) Even though I appreciate every bit of your reaching out. I felt that. I posted because it's more a message to everyone that whatever came before is washed away in the end. Like for example my brother said "I haven't talked to her in twenty years." So what, do you think at all that it matters? It doesn't. We all think it does, we all hate ourselves in various ways for the things we think we could have done better. It doesn't matter.

Hear, it doesn't matter. So stop beating yourselves/myself up. It doesn't matter.

My Father said he "made peace" with his little sister, he had grown distant from her. Do you think she cares? No, c'mon. She just wants to see her big brother happy as she passes. IMO as you pass on you gain perspective and you see that people do the best they can and it's not always what they wanted to do because we all have our failures but it's what they were capable of at the time. That's all you can ever do.

Your perspective is awesome bro. I'm truly saddened by your loss. Stay strong. You have my prayers.

NYK0605 · Post #724 » by **NYK0605** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 3:26 am

My prayers are with you. I have lost relatives before and know how tough it is.

Stay strong.

GotItNow · Post #725 » by **GotItNow** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 3:27 am

ComboGuardCity wrote:It'll get better with time. Celebrate her life by continuing yours.

Yeah hey thanks! Celebration! Doing that this weekend! I got kind of a surge actually.

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Post #726 » by **magnumt** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 3:30 am

Sorry to hear. May she RIP.

I've lost about 7 family memebers over the last 10 Years. Including 2 Aunts, and Uncle (who was the Pastor of my church), and my Father & Gtandfather in the Summer of '08.

Hang in there bro.

--Mags

PanicBeats · Post #727 » by **PanicBeats** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 3:38 am

Hang in there man...I will be praying for your comfort.

GotItNow · Post #728 » by **GotItNow** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 3:42 am

Knicksman780 wrote:I feel for you. In the last 6 months I lost my mother, grandmother and mother in law all due to cancer. This devastated my family. I was so glad to get 2010 over with, then last week a good friend of mine passes away unexpectedly...just 2 hours after I spent a half hour talking to him at my job (he came to visit and chat) about life in general. His last words to me were, "I'm happy where everything is at right now...Life's good".

Hang in there...and cherish the one's that are here.

Don't know what to say. Just that I'm thinking of you and my heart goes out and embraces. I can't even logically think how to process what you went through. It's overwhelming.

We're all together though, know that. Sorry, I got nothing else, wish I did.

GotItNow · Post #729 » by **GotItNow** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 3:51 am

BLACKFEET 2010 wrote:
GotItNow wrote:Thanks everyone for your well wishes. The way I see it it's not necessarily the one who had the loss who has a need. (I do have some myself though.) Even though I appreciate every bit of your reaching out. I felt that. I posted because it's more a message to everyone that whatever came before is washed away in the end. Like for example my brother said "I haven't talked to her in twenty years." So what, do you think at all that it matters? It doesn't. We all think it does, we all hate ourselves in various ways for the things we think we could have done better. It doesn't matter.

Hear, it doesn't matter. So stop beating yourselves/myself up. It doesn't matter.

My Father said he "made peace" with his little sister, he had grown distant from her. Do you think she cares? No, c'mon. She just wants to see her big brother happy as she passes. IMO as you pass on you gain perspective and you see that people do the best they can and it's not always what they wanted to do because we all have our failures but it's what they were capable of at the time. That's all you can ever do.

Your perspective is awesome bro. I'm truly saddened by your loss. Stay strong. You have my prayers.

Thank You. It's as much therapy as advice. Do as I say and not as I do. I judge myself far too much. No reason to really, for anyone...what makes you/I think you/i know the answer to any question? Just putting it out there.

GotItNow · Post #730 » by **GotItNow** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 4:13 am

magnumt wrote:Sorry to hear. May she RIP.

I've lost about 7 family memebers over the last 10 Years. Including 2 Aunts, and Uncle (who was the Pastor of my church), and my Father & Gtandfather in the Summer of '08.

Hang in there bro.

--Mags

The times are a bit weird now. I'm at the age (46) where the people I have loved and known all my life are having problems. Then you have the the ones you love that are older that aren't having problems but you can see the fear in their eyes when they hear about people in their age group suffering, you know they think about their own mortality. What can you say?

Sorry about what you've gone through. Don't know how I'll react when one of my parents go. Aunts, Uncles, Grandparents are at least once removed. Parents go, IMO that's when you know the clock is ticking for yourself...and you're lonely...at least I know I'll be. How do you let go of someone who's been such a big part of your life? How do you react when you know "you're it" and there is no backup? I'm ok with it, just wondering what it's like.

nflBLITZ2000 · Post #731 » by **nflBLITZ2000** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 5:03 am

ComboGuardCity wrote:It'll get better with time. Celebrate her life by continuing yours.

pretty much the best advice you can give

Knicker23 · Post #732 » by **Knicker23** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 5:24 am

As the old Gladiator movie end line goes, 'you'll see her again.. just not yet.. not yet'

atribecalledrch · Post #733 » by **atribecalledrch** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 5:59 am

Yo why the hell does it take so long to find an online game in 2k11?

Knicksfan20 · Post #734 » by **Knicksfan20** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 6:38 am

Crazyknicks wrote:Am I the only Knick fan that likes the Bulls (they're my 2nd fav team) and Miami?

Obviously I hate both when they face the Knicks.

If your a Knicks fan then your a crazy Knicks fan...

Post #735 » by **GONYK** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 8:50 am

Crazyknicks wrote:Am I the only Knick fan that likes the Bulls (they're my 2nd fav team) and Miami?

Obviously I hate both when they face the Knicks.

Based on this information, you aren't a Knick fan at all.

cgmw · Post #736 » by **cgmw** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 9:07 am

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Ron1 · Post #737 » by **Ron1** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 10:51 am

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alphad0gz · Post #738 » by **alphad0gz** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 11:57 am

First..my condolences.

My question is why do people feel compelled to share there PERSONAL loss with people that don't know each other? Shouldn't that be something shared between friends and family?

AirPaden · Post #739 » by **AirPaden** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 12:44 pm

You have my deepest sympathy, may she rest in peace. I lost my mother 2 years ago, actually she was my grandmother, my biological mother passed away at child birth. Stay strong.

AirPaden · Post #740 » by **AirPaden** » Sat Feb 5, 2011 12:47 pm

alphad0gz wrote:First..my condolences.

My question is why do people feel compelled to share there PERSONAL loss with people that don't know each other? Shouldn't that be something shared between friends and family?

Under God, we are all one. Satan wants us divided and God wants us to share and live as one. It is perfectly okay to share things that are going on in our personal lives.