baldur wrote:Online dating disfavours men extremely. Any women can get hundreds of matches with low quality photos, no bios. Average Men are invisible on online dating.
Online dating kills relationships actually. And it makes women delusional more than ever.
Interacting with women through real life and online dating is like night and day for an attractive man. There is no comparison. The ones I get to interact in bars, cafes, clubs are waaaaay more good looking than the ones I match through apps. Which is why I don't use online dating anymore. Just **** go out boys.
This is so true. Before I met my wife, I remember these girls that were like 5/10 at best, that wouldn't even match up with 7/10 dudes, they were all looking for 8/10+. They all had these checklists for men that they were interested in and wouldn't give you a second of their time if you missed one of them. It was actually insane. Apparently on these dating sites and apps it's like the top 10% or 20% of men are the only ones who get any matches and the women all "fight" for those
And I have nothing against women, I am very supporting of women but these apps truly make them delusional and a lot of them raise their standards too high and they don't offer much of anything on their end. They'll be like "I want a man who's at least 6'2'', in shape, has a good job making 6 figures, loves his family, no children, and needs to be spontaneous and fun!" And they'll be a woman not in the best shape, has a crappy job, maybe has a child, etc
Personally for me, personality is paramount and these apps tend to throw that stuff away and people get very stuck on material things.
Where as before maybe a Guy doesn't have his life fully together yet but is getting there, maybe they meet and the personality match is great, both find each other decently attractive, and 2 people become a team together and better their lives together. Now women want everything done and ready for them, basically want a guy to have a house, his entire life together, etc and if they don't have it, the women won't be interested