Wingy wrote:Checks the math…
TorontoBarneys wrote:azcatz11 wrote:So he did all of this and she doesn’t go to the police but sues him? Okay. I’m skeptical.
Women waiting years to come out with this **** is always incredibly sus. Feels very opportunistic.
+NbaAllDay wrote:Will generally be sceptical when these claims are made against high profile people, especially when it's 'years' later.
The damage this does to the accused without any evidence (yet) is always bad.
= why victims don’t come forward.
Who knows if he’s guilty, and we’ll see how it plays out, but I can’t believe how many people who can never even fathom such a violation happening to them are so quick to judge and tell a victim - you shoulda done this, done that, why didn’t you do this…especially when it’s against someone with more power, more resources, more lawyers, more everything.
Again, this accuser could be full of it, but these same attitudes above make already violated victims afraid to step forward.
Unless you forgot to quote someone else, this logic doesn't check. Both posters said "why wait years to come out, that is what makes it suspect", you respond "this is why they don't come forward"... ok, that explains why some wouldn't come forward years later, but it says nothing about doing it immediately when the offense happens.
It's also a misandrist take that is common in our gynocentric society, where only the fallout for women is considered, but not the falsely accused men. Just look at cases like the Duke Lacrosse boys, those kids had their lives ruined over a false accusation, and when it was ruled false it wasn't blasted by the media nearly to the extent the circus of a trial was. There are people TO THIS DAY who cite that case as an example of "rape culture" or why you need to believe all women.
There's a lot of gray area in all of this, and anyone coming at it one sided, either trying to excuse men because "these things happen in bed", "they're liars", etc, or excusing women because "they were scared to come forward", "they should always be believed", is just seeking retribution against a single sex, instead of justice.