Masterfully wrote:Guest202 wrote:Masterfully wrote:You need new friends.
For contrast all of my friends have been married for 10-30 years and have NEVER cheated on their wives. Or maybe they have, but I dont know because they aren't stupid enough to tell me.
I only say that because young people may read your post and think that having a monogamous relationship is impossible. It happens all the time.
Don't be so sure. Maybe your friends just don't have the options to and/or maybe they don't do or talk about it around you because you seem like a snitch. Note: My pals are all late 20s early 30s, so they're still moderately handsome. I think cheating with random chicks tends to get a little more difficult as you age and become less attractive, travel less, etc.
I know they have options. I have options. Anyone who goes to a strip club has options. As far as being a "snitch" goes... there wives are my friends too. So yeah, as a friend, I would "snitch." (Seriously? "Snitch"? Are you 12?)
Let me ask you this. If you found out your buddy's girlfriend was sleeping around, would you tell your buddy?
If your friends know you're 'that guy' that will tell they're obviously not going to brag to you about the girl from college they ran into at a conference in D.C. Trust me, this stuff is happening...a lot more often than you think.




















Your boy will deny it, she prob won't believe you, and you'll be shunned from their entire social circle, your scorned old friend could jeopardize your community standing and professional contacts...all for what? Mind your business.







