SeizeCoup wrote:I think there needs to be real dialog to make any progress, you know, people talking face to face. Celebrities/Athletes and regular people as well. All these tweets, and subtweets, passive-aggressive, and aggressive-aggressive sound bites, etc, has gotten out of control.
We've taken the human element out of things. (as I sit here typing behind a computer screen, while simultaneously texting friends on my phone...)
At the end of the day the stuff that is important about us, our dreams, our insecurities, our basic human needs, are pretty much the same across the board. Breaking down biases caused by segregation (geographically, socioeconomically) needs to become a priority. The more we mix, collaborate, create together, the better our chances of having a more unified country.
Progress can only be achieved by putting yourself in the shoes of your opposition. Realizing that their circumstances have led them to a completely different set of perspectives and bias than your own and gaining an understanding of where they are coming from is the first step. Until you make the effort you are the problem.
I think my perspective may differ from most others on this board, so I am willing to offer up my viewpoint in able to better promote understanding. I am 57, white, middle class, semi-retired, and ex-military. I did not grow up privileged and do know what it is like to not know where your next meal is coming from. Everything I have and have achieved was by my own sweat. No one gave me a leg up because of my race, religion, or background, in some cases it has been the opposite. I was raised to be color blind because of experiences my mother had as a young adult that shaped her perspective. I have a mixed race, half Asian, half African adopted daughter who melts my heart just thinking about her.
Athletes are expressing their discontent with the current state of racial equality in the United States by kneeling during the national anthem. This is their right and they should be fully supported in their actions. However, freedom of speech does not guarantee you freedom from consequences. It is right to articulate one's opinions and ideas without fear of government retaliation or censorship. The very choice of kneeling for the national anthem is made because it has consequences, that it is a controversial act, otherwise we would not be talking about it. Those who are in opposition to you have the right to voice that opposition as well, even if they occupy the white house and are idiots. If you have violated terms of your employment or membership in any organization, they have the right to terminate your employment or membership.
It should be recognized that if you are from the older generation it is an absolute insult for someone to disrespect the flag and the national anthem, that it is an insult to the military and their sacrifice. You saying that is not your intention does not change the fact that it is an insult from their perspective. I have a particular distrust of nationalism despite my service and it does not bother me as much but I 100% understand their perspective.
In understanding this point of view it is important to understand that the ability to restructure your perspective diminishes greatly as you age. I think this makes an act that is so insulting to an older generation counter productive and ill advised. All it is doing is deepening the divide.
I agree that the racial divide is a problem that must be at the forefront of our consciousness. I also believe that it is correct for privileged athletes to use their notoriety and money to address social injustices. But this is getting us no where, attack the problem. There are still thousands of African Americans unjustly imprisoned due mostly to inadequate legal representation. The NCAA an institution that makes millions of dollars for the work of young athletes, predominantly African American, who they do not compensate justly for their services. There are systemic problems on the use of force and racism in law enforcement across this country. Demanding solutions is appropriate. Pissing of old white people really isn't the solution.
How's that for a morning rant.